A whole new meaning for the word 'No'

A whole new meaning for the word 'No'
A whole new meaning for the word 'No'

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Aden - Yasmine El Tohamy - No! One of the most powerful words in English language, I think.

Being a monosyllable, it has a story in it. Recently, the Hindi movie "Pink" in its last dialogue, spoke about "no" not just as a word, it is actually a sentence. At times, there is no need to give a reference to context, because it is so obvious. The moment is now and the circumstance is "as is". Also, why is that we have to give a reason for our no. Why are our sentences framed as "I don't want to do this, because" or "I don't believe in this because".

There is a change in our social behavior. Earlier, saying no was considered rude, inappropriate and in some families almost forbidden. But nowadays, with the busy lifestyle and demands, saying no to a few things and to some people has become a necessity. Although I must hasten to add, as a corollary to this, the manner in which the no is said is equally important.

In the Court of law, when one lawyer says, "No I disagree with my learned friend" (opposing counsel), he has to give reasons for his no and disagreement. But in our daily lives, we are not in a Court of law. We should be able to say no, without giving justification for it. The party hearing the refusal should also accept the same in a gracious manner.

Thinking you are a bad person for saying no is a symptom of "the disease to please." "Saying yes when you need to say no causes burnout. You do yourself and the person making the request a disservice by saying yes all of the time," says author Duke Robinson. Don't feel guilty. Just take tips from experts on etiquette and communication?and a cue from your favorite two-year-old?and say no.

Let us analyze why is it so difficult to say the word "no"? It's just a word, right?

People are afraid of saying no because their biggest fear is rejection. They are afraid that they would disappoint someone, make someone angry, hurt someone's feelings, or appear unkind or rude. Having people think negatively is the ultimate rejection. It's a heavy burden to carry because with the urge to say yes also comes a lack of self-confidence and self-value.

Saying no doesn't mean that you are being rude, selfish, or unkind. These are all unhelpful beliefs that make it hard to say no. Learning where these beliefs have come from is a great way to learn to let go of them. Well, as children, we learned that saying no was impolite or inappropriate. If you said no to your mom, dad, teacher, uncle, grandparents, and so on, you were most certainly considered to be being rude, and you would have probably been told off for it.

Saying no was off limits, and yes was the polite and likable thing to say. Now that we are all adults, we are more mature and capable of making our own choices, as well as knowing the difference between wrong and right. Therefore, no shouldn't be an off limits word, but rather something that we decide on ourselves, based on our own discretion. But sadly, we hold onto our childhood beliefs and we continue to associate no with being dislikeable, bad mannered, unkind, or selfish. We worry that if we say no, we will end up being alone, rejected, or abandoned.

Another pivotal step to learning to say no is realizing that you are valuable and choosing your own opinion about yourself over others. I have learned that if you live your life depending on other people's approval, you will never feel free and truly happy. If you depend on other people's approval, what you are basically saying is "Their opinion of me is more important than my opinion about myself."

The most important step to learning to say no is deciding if saying yes is really worth it. After committing to something, doubt eventually sets in and you may begin to think of ways you can get out of it. And if you don't have any good excuses, you then have to decide if you are going to tell the truth or come up with a lie. Think about the anguish, stress, and resentment that saying yes has caused you. Wouldn't it be so much easier and straightforward to just say no in the first place? I have a right to say no and shouldn't be afraid of letting other people down at the cost of my own happiness.

I quote Derek Sivers : "don't say yes to everything. Say Yes to less, and simplify your life". Create room in your life for the things that matter and see the huge improvement in the quality of your life, your work and your relationships.

- Shilpa Bhasin Mehra is the founder of Legal Connect. Views expressed are her own and do not reflect the newspaper's policy.

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